After working with hundreds of parents, supporting them with tantrums, I realized that there were a few things that were helpful:

1. Having a script helped them STAY CALM during the tantrum so they stayed connected with their child during the strong feelings. 
2. When parents knew what they wanted to say, they felt confident! Knowing what to say and do during a child's dysregulation is a win! 
3. Parent's started to reframe success from "My child not ever having a tantrum" to "knowing what I want to say and do when my child has a tantrum."

The tantrum script will provide you not only with language to help during a tantrum, but an emotion coaching process where you hold boundaries, consider your own regulation and know how to repair and reconnect and walk alongside your child as they do the same. 

“I walked into my friend’s house and saw that this script was on their fridge. Then everyone else at the party said they had it on there too! It helps us stay calm and my husband and I use the same language and same process now. (Not to mention all our friends!” -An amazing parent who uses the tantrum script