As a practitioner and trainer of Lomi Lomi Massage, I've embarked on a journey deep into the heart of therapeutic techniques, far beyond the mere physical touch. My passion is to unite massage therapists, and bodyworkers from all walks of life, with one common goal in mind: infusing our healing sessions with the essence of aloha, simplicity, and compassion.
Today, I want to share with you my insights on how to bring more love and empathy into your massage practice, and thereby, enrich the lives of those we touch.
Being physically present in a session is one thing, but being mentally and emotionally there for my clients is a whole different ball game. I've found that during long sessions, it's natural for my mind to wander, perhaps pondering over bills or planning what to cook for dinner. However, I've developed a simple but effective technique for re-centering myself: the moment I realize my attention has drifted, I gently remind myself to focus on the now. I concentrate on the leg or arm I'm massaging, paying close attention to the feel of the muscles under my hands, and gradually broaden my awareness to include my client's breathing or even revisit their intake form for a brief moment. This technique not only brings me back to the present but also ensures that I'm fully attuned to my client's needs.
2. A Touch of Aloha in Every Session
Aloha is more than just a greeting; it's a way of life. It embodies love, peace, and compassion. Initially, in my eagerness to showcase my skills, I would try to apply all the techniques I knew in one session. Over time, I realized that this approach often overwhelmed my clients rather than helping them. I learned to tailor my sessions based on what my clients were ready to receive, letting go of my ego and focusing on their comfort and healing. This shift not only made my sessions more effective but also allowed me to practice with true aloha spirit.
3. Holding Space for Healing
One of the most profound aspects of my practice is the ability to hold space for my clients' healing. This involves active listening and a deep understanding of their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. I've explored the Hawaiian practice of Ho'oponopono, a powerful method of forgiveness and reconciliation, which has significantly deepened the healing process in my sessions. By creating a safe space for my clients to release past traumas and resentments, I've witnessed remarkable transformations in their well-being.
As we continue on this journey, let us remember the power of aloha and the profound impact it can have on our practice and the lives of those we serve. Let's embrace love and empathy, not just as techniques, but as the very foundation of our healing work.
AUTHOR
Debbie K Barker
Debbie's has a passion and interest in the holistic understanding of the Mind Body Connection. She has studied with 6 different Lomi Lomi/Kahuna schools (a Level 7 practitioner), a Heartworks Lomi Lomi instructor, Remedial Massage therapist and has 20 years of nursing experience to draw on combining her knowledge both with the therapeutic techniques with the lomi lomi flow.
Whether you want to learn how to give heart centred treatments or enhance what you already do, or maybe, you are looking for someone to show you how to build your business and attract amazing clients, then you have come to the right place.
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