Charisma shouldn't be hard work.
Charisma is your natural ability to create and receive emotional movement in people as you act, speak, and listen. The problem is that most people try to create an impact on people through effort and grandiosity.
With daily practice, you'll feel safe and connected to yourself, the environment, and others, getting out of your head and into your body, so you can express in a way that's both congruent and impactful.
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Discern for beneficial relationships and resources automatically.
People have a visceral response to the things they want and don’t want. It’s the same thing that makes you gravitate towards good foods and pleasurable experiences. You'll get an intuitive sense of what and who is right for you to meet your own needs automatically.
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Signal to others how to give you what you want in a non-needy way.
As your body expresses more congruently with daily practice, the empathetic response in others will begin to recognize your needs and bring you the relationships and resources you're looking for. This is why people can have “love at first sight” experiences: the body is simultaneously expressing both what it's looking for and what it can provide.
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Quiet the internal noise and actually make strides toward the life you want.
Realize the feelings that haunt you are actually manageable. Take back control of your life from the doubts, fears, and worries that turn your waking dream into a nightmare. Find inner stability so you can live lucidly.