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RAY DOKTOR, PSY.D.

Ray Doktor, Psy. D. works as a life coach and relationship coach.

For the last 27 years, he’s successfully helped over 6k clients breakthrough limited beliefs and challenges to have better relationships, improved family life, and more success!

Dr. Ray received his doctoral degree in clinical psychology, earned a master’s degree in counseling psychology, and an undergraduate degree in human behavior.

Other advanced training includes: hypnotherapy, Gestalt therapy, guided imagery, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), qigong, PSYCH-K, meditation, sound healing, and somatic experience.

His most profound mentorship involved traveling the world and assisting renowned psychologist Dr. Morris Netherton–a pioneer in his field and colleague of Fritz Perls, Carl Rogers, and Norm Shealy.

And yes, his real last name is Doktor. Everyone gets a laugh about it, so he is used to it.

When and how did Dr. Ray begin his journey?

Dr. Ray is the best coach! I've worked with others before and this has been by far the best and most impactful experience.

– Lauren B.

I have worked with dozens of practitioners over the years, who have all claimed to get to the root issue. Dr. Ray is the only one who has ever actually done it. And... he did it minutes into the first session!

-Matt R.

Now, I am the happiest I've ever been and pregnant with my first child!

Thank you Ray for being not only an awesome coach but friend throughout my journey!

– Sarah P.

Ray Doktor, Psy. D. became interested in consciousness and spirituality after two near-death experiences. He grew up in a loving but chaotic home with a father and mother who both suffered from PTSD. His father, a Marine, served World War II, Korean war, and the Vietnam War. His mother, from Okinawa, was a survivor of World War II.

He was challenged with racism, bad asthma, trichotillomania (pulling hair), and intoeing (also called pigeon-toes where your toes turn toward each other) in his early childhood, which all led to deep insecurities, depression, and suicidal thoughts.

Music and art became his expressive outlet but he still struggled with self-sabotage, confidence, trust, relationships, career, and happiness. After his 2nd DUI (driving under the influence) at 23 years old, his healing journey began through therapy, coaching, attending transformational workshops, and exploring self-improvement books and recordings.

Through his own healing process, working with numerous mentors, and his clinical training and school, Dr. Ray has developed hybrid modalities and techniques that break self-defeating patterns, so clients THRIVE in relationships, career, and family.

As a once confused and angry young man, trying to find himself to feel happy (feel respected, make money, get married, start a family), he’s discovered a better and sustainable path for relationships in our modern world.

His life is now led by PURPOSE, PASSION, and AUTHENTICITY.

Dr. Ray enjoys full-time fatherhood with his son Max, working as an entrepreneur, and enjoying an adventurous and happy LIFE!

My experience with Ray has been one of the most enlightening and transforming experiences I've had up until now.

– Paul T.

This man is brilliant! In only a few short sessions I have seen major transformations in my life! I wish I would have known about him sooner because no other psychologist/coach has been able to help me like Dr. Ray!

– Angel E.

I am a Physician Assistant and work with several colleagues and friends who work as MFT's. I have never encountered another Therapist with such incredible intuition and insight.

– Kehli M.

Mentoring men to become inspiring leaders, and helping people create purposeful and transparent relationships is not just his job but his life mission.

Dr. Ray believes that in this world of modern relationships, we’re co-creating something new and bigger than just us. We’re expanding beyond what our ancestors created and making things better for our planet!

Dr Ray has been my savior. I came in depressed and broken with failures in my prime relationships and work. After meeting Dr Ray and going for his personal sessions I have been able to mend a 30 year old relationship with my dad.

- Sean V.

Dr. Ray Doktor is no ordinary man, healer, or doctor. Out of all the healers I've been too, which is very many, never have I been more impressed by the skill level, creative qualities, sincere love, and combinations of modalities incorporated.

– Hailey A.

He will break through the layers of fear and bullsh*t that you've been identifying with and truly help you. He is wise beyond his years, and if you are truly ready for a transformational change, and to become a better version of you, then visit him.

- Mas Y M.

If you’re ready to THRIVE and make a big impact in this world with Dr. Ray's help, then book YOUR FREE 30-minute discovery call.

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