I see you …. Yes you Mumma, hustling into the wee hours of the morning to launch your new products, surviving on coffee, Taking conference calls while you're making snacks and packing lunches, closing deals on the bleachers watching soccer practice

I see you … I see you behind closed doors, When you chew your nails to the bone scared that you won't break even this month
I see you when you hide in the shower cry in the shower the imposter syndrome that haunts you threatening to swallow you whole
I see you nervously check your reviews, your heart jumping for joy and the 5 stars and slipping into crushing self-doubt when you read the uncommon but devastating 2 stars or less
I see you, the black marks under your eyes from lack of sleep and self-criticism, the exhaustion you feel trying to juggle, mum life and boss babe life

I see you, snap at your kids for interrupting your call, again and again …. and then I see you beat yourself up over snapping at them for days
I see you … doing everything right, listening to all the training doing all the courses, tweaking your FB ads over and over again … yet getting nowhere.

I see you
and …. I adore you …. hell I was you,


I want you to know that even though right now you might feel completely alone .. your not
I want you to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel
I want you to know that the world NEEDs what you offer, it WANTS to hear your message
I want you to know that even though somewhere in business and mother hood and PTA meetings you might have forgotten how incredible you are …. YOU ARE INCREDIBLE!
I want you to know you DO deserve to be wealthy woman and money can be FUN !
I want you to remember just how badass you really are ….


 

Because deep down inside you know that you CAN do this, you know that you are made for more, you know that you could change the world if you desired too … you know that underneath the self-doubt, fear and imposter syndrome

 

You are fierce
You are strong
You are an Incredible mum and you are born to make an impact on this world…


but you're stuck ….

It’s not that you're not talented enough or smart enough
it's not that you're somehow not “good” or worthy enough.
You know you have gifts to share with the world, and your hearts truest desires are 100% meant for you. It’s like you’re right on the edge of breaking through to being that joyful, successful and wealthy boss babe you KNOW you can really be. So why hasn’t it happened yet .. you're doing all the work, but you just can't make it happen ????

The simple truth is babe – you’re still playing out the old patterns, beliefs, and energy that used to rule your world…the old broke, scared, lack bullshit that you have been stuck with your entire life

This old story around your worth + money is keeping you stuck, small and frustrated.

No matter how much work you do in your business until you do the mental mindset work to shift these old patterns habits and beliefs you'll never be able to break through into the BEST version of YOU that you know lies deep inside waiting to be unlocked.


 

 

"Highly recommend business support from sexy selfish if you are just starting out!!

From my first meeting I had guidance.

I was on the right track, the motivation and support from Shona pushed me further knowing I can do this!

Such a different experience to be encouraged, to dream big and not feel silly doing so."

Melissa - Business owner 

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You are passionate about what you do (and despite comparison that still creeps up you know you are incredible at your work).

 

You know you’ve been getting in your own way - settling for less, making up stories on why you’re not ready, sabotaging your strategy and comparing yourself

 

You’ve already have had success in your business like $10k+ cash months regularly. But you are sooo  ready for THE NEXT LEVEL 

 

You’re ready for more flow and ease in your business so you can be more present in your life and have all the time in the world to spend with your family.

 

You're over the stress, pressure and drama that has been surrounding your goals and you are fully committed to creating your dream income in a way that is enjoyable for you.

 

You're ready to start walking your talk and start living in complete limitless abundance so you can show others what's possible for them too.

 

You have worked with Me in some capacity previously, you know me and trust me to guide you to your desires.

 

 

"I manifested 5 new clients this week .... since i started, I have now got clear on what I want to do with my coaching practice and my life... everything is soo clear now !

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“It’s not everyday that you meet someone who just knows all things you need to hear, who understands what your trying say when you don’t even know how to explain it yourself or put it into words. Shona is that person to me. Her guidance through some of my toughest life choices has always picked me up & reminded me to be true to who I am. Having someone like this incredible person so inspiring & positive be there for me when I didn’t know how to cope has seen me through some of my darkest day. Shona hasn’t once ever given up on me, & I look up to her more than she knows. In my 2 years of knowing her I can truly say she has made me a better person, & im forever grateful for her mentoring me”

Caitlin 

Youtube health coach

Shona has always been someone who has inspired me, even before I started business coaching with her. She showed me you can be a mum and a total BOSS lady and slay the day. She has since helped me turn my virtual assistant business into a reality. She was with me every step of the way and I loved her honesty, firmness and guidance. Helping me find my niche and revealing layers of myself that will help me stay accountable and true to myself. I would highly recommend shona to anyone needing guidance in life or in business. Thank you

Jazmin 

Mum, virtual assistant

Adjusting to 2 kids, a move and a life transition had left me in a place I was feeling pretty empty. Nothing left for me! Shona helped me get really honest about what I need and acknowledge how important it is to look after ME too. Shona awoke a spark inside me that had been suffocating for a long time. She reminded me what ta like to feel INSPIRED, to have PASSION and a reason to FOCUS. Working 1 on 1 with Shona is a blessing. She keeps me on track even when I feel like I'm flailing! She reminds me it's ok to be HumanAF - but it's also important to dig in a build something that really makes my soul sing.

Sarah 

Simple Living advocate 

MEET YOUR MENTOR, SHONA GATES FROM SEXY SELFISH 

 

Money Mindset expert and business coach Shona Gates is passionate about helping women worldwide transform their relationship with money. 

 

As a serial entrepreneur and coach, Shona began to notice a reoccurring theme in her development journey and in her clients' mindset work.  

 

Money was the block that kept popping up over and over again. Determined to get rid of money guilt for good, Shona spent years transforming her relationship with money, and she vowed that as she learned and mastered this, she would share it with as many women as possible. 

 

Shona Gates has employed different means to reach as many people as possible across the globe. In her online courses, memberships and the new book, she shares her wealth of experience garnered over the years coaching women from all walks of life to embrace the success mindset and get rid of money guilt FOR GOOD.

Shona Gates 

Barossa Valley SA 

"I am now 100% converted this manifestation DOES WORK

I did what you told me, I wrote down on a big piece of paper all the things that I wanted to achieve for the year.  

I wrote it all down in detail and then went about my year. 6 moths later, not only had I achieved EVERYTHING on the paper but I had gotten EVEN MORE"

Sandra, mother and business  owner 

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"She helped me over come the imposter syndrome and work on my money mindset. I'm so glad I invested in a business coach, even now months later her advice plays in my head when I'm working on client emails or how to set up better systems in my business. she was my mentor and support system at a time when business life was so new and over whelming"

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