Results that Liberating Love participants have experienced
I asked the couples to rate themselves on 3 key metrics for where they were BEFORE and AFTER the program
COMMUNICATION
before (average): 4.18/10
after (average): 8.09/10
INTIMACY
before (average): 3.64/10
after (average): 7/10
CONFIDENCE IN THE DIRECTION OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP
before (average): 3.27/10
after (average): 8.36/10
Diala and Nadar took things from "pretty good" to "Great!"
“We are both so grateful for the work we've done in Liberating Love. In a season of both of us growing, it's been difficult to navigate conflicts and our different needs. We have both felt so empowered working through the coursework and videos together, chatting on the couples calls and listening to other couples share. The men only and women only calls have been a game changer for us. We have both shared vulnerably and felt really held by the group and coached through some hard sticking points with Tully. This has reminded us that we are human and a conscious incredible relationship takes time and work on both sides. It's also reminded us how far we have come. We're so excited about the vision we have for our future and our family. This is no mean feat considering we have been together for 27 years. Thanks Tully for such an incredible gift.”
- Diala Barsoum
Here’s what David and Rach had to say about transforming heated conflict into mutual understanding and compassion after they finished Liberating Love.
"A profound journey connecting with ourselves, each other and the vision for our relationship. Viewing the relationship as a living organism and an extension of us is a very powerful place to stand. So grateful we took the time to prioritise us through the four months with Tully."
- David Weisse
Tim and Libby rebuilt connection, trust and intimacy after navigating big challenges early into parenthood.
Liberating Love was Fantastic!
Tully creates such a safe and open space. I loved the group dynamic as I saw myself and our relationship in other people’s sharing and realised it’s all universal and we aren’t alone in what we’re dealing with.
It also gave me the ability to see our relationship from a bigger perspective and appreciate the season we were in. I stopped existentially questioning whether we’re meant to be together. I stopped having one foot in the door and one foot out and fully committed to our future.
Our communication has really improved, especially in the area of conflict. We now have frameworks in place to ensure we are communicating respectfully and with the most generous interpretation of other person in mind. This has truly helped us break some unhealthy patterns.
I feel so connected to Tim again and our intimacy and trust in each other has returned. I was so scared that it never would again. It’s been really healing. I’m stoked that Tim and I have put in the work and it’s paid off.
I see an exciting future with more children, travel, intimacy, fulfilment, adventure, growth, learning and being the parents we want to be!
- Libby
Ged and Jody were on the brink of separation and then COMPLETELY turned things around. Now they feel connected, at ease and excited about the future together.
"This is the best thing we could have done for our relationship, for ourselves and for each other. We were at the point of giving up on our marriage. The learnings over the last 4 months have been huge. Through implementing the tools we have been given we have come to a place where we are feeling really connected and our relationship is now infused with a beautiful grounded energy. We are both really excited about moving forward into our future together"
- Jody
"Tully's guidance was instrumental in my partner & I being able to move out of old patterning. We were aware of these things, but just kept repeating old cycles and felt stuck in our relationship. Tul helped us understand the intention behind one another's behaviours which allowed for more compassion. We also gained somatic/embodied tools (not just talk therapy) which coupled with the coaching, have created massive shifts in our relationship dynamic. We have moved into expansion & thriving in our relationship, plus healthy healthy conflict & communication. Also, our intimacy grew, and we are expecting our second baby in June. We are in a new phase and couldn't be happier, feeling connected as a team."
"Liberating Love was an amazing experience for myself and partner. It provides the tools to gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and partner and has many practices that can be introduced for an enhanced relationship. I couldn’t fault the overall experience. Tully as the facilitator was down to earth, made things fun, kept my motivation up and was extremely understanding and knowledgeable with the content."
"Before we started this program, we knew we were feeling extremely disconnected in our relationship, but had no idea what exactly was wrong or where to even start. It is insane the difference that we feel in our connection, teamwork, communication and future vision for where our relationship is going, in just four months. Tully is an incredible coach - you can tell he knows this stuff deeply and we always felt comfortable and encouraged in his presence. I'm so thankful that I pushed my partner to do this with me, I can't imagine where we would be if we hadn't!"
Where do I even begin? We began having recently split up, wondering if this would be our last attempt to save anything that may be. We invested in us for the first time in years mostly with the time we set aside and the help we began to ask for so we could prioritise this course which in turn ended up us - we learnt how to create space for our relationship again our dating, our momentsWe had no idea this would bring us the clarity it has, the learnings within these modules, the care taken has been the most important things we have ever learnt and the way Tully holds the space allowed for so much openness and vulnerability which felt so key to begin healing. We are communicating so differently, our relationship has changed forever and, for the first time in a long time it looks like there could be a future for us. We are indebted to this course, to Tully and everyone who was so vulnerable that helped us grow as a couple for us and for our kids”
"My wife and I have recently completed our 4 month 'Liberating Love' course with Tully and it has completely changed our relationship. When we first started this course my Wife and I were separated, living in separate houses and gave this course a go as one last chance to save our marriage and it has done that and more. Learning about each other again, about ourselves and our marriage. It brought to light what we had forgotten and what we needed to work on and understand, not only about ourselves but each other. The things you forget about when life gets busy with work, kids etc. I'm happy to say that this course has changed our life and my marriage for the better. The course notes, modules and Tullys expertise is second to none.
Big love out to Tully. This course has changed my life forever mate."
"Excellent, brought us a lot closer. Understand why each person is the way they are. Absolutely loved it and will recommend to my friends!"
"Liberating love is an immersive and expansive experience with practical solutions and guidance".
"Liberating Love is such a valuable program for strengthening your relationship. Tully teaches with so much heart, experience and realness that it never feels like you have to be perfect, but really gives you an opportunity to grow as a couple, celebrate the wins and uncover pieces that you may not have realised are blocking you. The ripple effect of this course is incredible. I would 100% recommend. Not just for the times when the relationship feels on the rocks, but also for when things are in smooth ‘ish’ sailing, because it gives you the extra tools to navigate when change does come."
"It was a fantastic experience ! We have made huge changes off the back of this course. We have navigated uncertainty and a huge move up North has been a result of our relationship vision. The content was holistic, considering the emotional, mental, spiritual and physical experience of the individual and couples. I feel confident, inspired and grounded in our relationship, where we are going, what we are creating together and we have a myriad of tools to work with moving forward.
Thanks for practicing what you preach, for your transparency and authenticity it’s been fantastic. Thanks Tully."
"I would 100% do it all over again so 10/10."
"It was great, it had so many good modules that were really eye opening. It was also easy to commit to and has really changed our relationship."
"We absolutely loved the Liberating Love course!
We began this course in a really dark place, feeling entirely stretched and without resources to understand and communicate our own needs.
Throughout the course we have addressed some deep topics and navigated sensitive issues using the course as a compassionate framework. We have been able to unlock and demystify our own operating systems as well as better understand each others. This means we can communicate more effectively and resolve conflict with greater ease.
The modules which look at Intimacy and the Transition to Parenthood were so important to us, they gave us the ability to take a deeper look, without criticism or judgement, at where we are at and then implement the practical strategies that build connection and intimacy.
Huge.
Thank you so much for this course. We are so grateful to have been apart of it. While navigating the highs and lows of early parenthood, we feel so lucky to be a united front, to welcome in more love and connection, and demonstrate loving partnership to our kids. What a gift."
"I found it engaging and with great evidenced base info, along with great practical tools to apply it. It gave clarity to issues that are difficult to see within the relationship."
Liberating Love Participant, June 2023
"Super grateful for the program and the magic, authenticity and fun Tully brought to it. Personal development can sometime feel intense and overwhelming but with Tully he creates a space that feels normal, real and full of possibility!"
"As a couple that quickly turned into a family we had a lot of catching up to do. This program really helped open some conversations that have allowed us to understand each other more and work together. It’s just the beginning and we know there is more we can do, but this has been so helpful to get us thinking and acting in a whole new way whether day to day or in moments of conflict."
"We really appreciated all the material and live calls and help. It's helped better equip us towards getting closer to our ideal relationship."
Liberating Love Participant, June 2023
"Tully has a wealth of knowledge, delivered content in an easy to swallow, straightforward way. Covered all aspects of relationships and have us great insights into why we have been stuck in the same patterns for what feels like forever. We have a fresh, new hope and lots of amazing strategies and tools to implement with helping us to move forward in our relationship, love and intimacy!"
Jessie, June 2023
"Awesome. Focusing on our relationship for four months was a game changer and has spurred us on to continue to strengthen our rituals and have better, open conversations."
Benny, June 2023
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